Discover how you can rewire your internal system to stop gaslighting you and honor what you feel in just three months... even if you have lived in the closet experiencing guilt, shame, and anxiety for years!
Get Sexually Liberated
no matter how late in life you are!
Unbox Your Sexuality™: A 12- Week Sexuality Liberation Program provides you with the tools you need to adopt a curious mindset, connect your dots and deep dive into exploring the beliefs and stories you hold about who you are as a sexual being in the world.
The 3 Phase Unboxing Method: Unpack, Unlearn, and Unleash will take you into a deeper state of knowing yourself and eventual calm, one step at a time.
You’ll connect to others in similar situations, encourage and support one another, get support from Samantha, find the courage deep within, cultivate space for possibility, and unleash your ability to live fully into what resonates with your true Self.
Feel a sense of belonging, connect your dots, quit gaslighting yourself, understand your attractions, explore yourself in new ways, begin building your community, and find what feels most authentic to you.
I spent YEARS of my life trying to put all of the pieces together and connect the dots…
…and created the Unbox Your Sexuality™ Programs so that you don’t have to spend a lifetime connecting yours!
In just 3 months this program will provide you with the exact questions you need to ask yourself so that you can find your answers today.
We have this one life! What are you waiting for?
You feel these things…
I feel paralyzed by my deep guilt and don’t want to hurt anyone.
I am married/partnered with a man, attracted to women, and feel alone and stuck.
I am worried about what others will think and say about me.
Shame and internalized homophobia are stopping me from exploring my sexuality.
I want to free myself and feel more authentic, but I keep editing and hiding this part of me from the world.
I doubt myself because I only fully realized these feelings later in life; therefore, I minimize them and try to shut them down.
The idea of being so different from everyone else is terrifying.
I don’t want to hurt my partner/husband or my kids, and exploring my sexuality puts this at risk.
I’m afraid if I explore my sexuality, it will prevent me from being able to stay in my relationship, and I want to preserve what I have built.
It is unbearable to feel like I am ruining everyone else’s life by following my heart.
It’s selfish of me to consider my identity and possibly come out when I have children and a husband.
I am confused because I have only been attracted to one woman and still fantasize about sex with men.
…and you don’t know what to do next!
Here’s what previous participants had to say about their experience:
In This 12-week Online Program You’ll Get :
Real-time support from Samantha Live on Zoom in bi-weekly office hours
Self-exploratory work based on The Unboxing Method’s 3 phase approach: Unpack, Unlearn, and Unleash
Sequential experiential modules and reflection exercises to deepen your self-awareness in each phase of Unboxing Yourself™ offered in various formats for all kinds of learners
Access to the private Unbox Your Sexuality™ page feed, where you can foster community and friendship among members
Access to Samantha in the private feed where she offers support and answers questions on all things Unbox Your Sexuality™ related
Upon completion of the program, an exclusive Invitation to the Sapphic Circle, a place for ongoing support, community and spotlight coaching for those who have gone through the Unbox Your Sexuality™ Programs
I’m Samantha Fox, the Lesbian Curiosity Coach.
When I was questioning my sexuality, I also didn’t know where to turn. I have been helping women questioning their sexuality and coming out later in life since 2010.
This topic makes me so excited and energized. My heartfelt mission is to encourage, guide and celebrate you as you travel on your path while creating a supportive community.
Professional Experience
As a Sexuality Coach, I work with women worldwide who discover that they are not as straight as they thought. I have developed the Unboxing Method and watched the monumental transformation women experience as they move through the three 3-phases of unpacking, unlearning, and unleashing schemas and narratives that women carry due to being born into a patriarchal society.
I am also a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in New York. I have a private practice and work with individuals and couples struggling with sexuality, sexual issues, coming out later in life, and intimacy. I pull from various therapy models to work with my clients, which supports my belief that one size doesn’t fit all.
I have been sought out by women coming out later in life who need help managing internalized homophobia, feelings of guilt and shame, and struggling to embrace and embody their authentic selves. To give women a safe space to explore, find, and live their truth and to create an embracing community for women around the globe questioning their sexuality or coming out later in life, I have built the Unbox Your Sexuality™ Programs.
What Happens In Unbox Your Sexuality™: A 12 Week Sexuality Liberation Program?
Introduction to a curious stance and how to use this throughout the program and beyond
Discovery through sexual narratives
Unpacking and exploring your beliefs
Exploration of self-limiting thoughts/beliefs and introduction of choice
Grief, loss, and fear: delving into the emotional tumult of being a late bloomer
Processing (feeling) as a way to heal
Exploring what this may mean for your marriage, family, future
Understanding your inner people pleaser, unpacking how it has shown up in your life, and how to work with it so it can soften
Exploring what it would be like to come out to yourself, family, friends, and the world without any pressure and in a way that works for you
Unlearning compulsory heterosexuality and exploring it’s impact on you
Unlearning compulsory femininity and its impact on Women’s sexuality
Tools to help you work with the parts of you holding homophobic narratives
Softening your internalized homophobic parts
Exploring and unlearning internalized misogyny
Softening your internalized misogynistic parts
Unlearning a Martyr-like mindset
Exploring gender roles and what works for you today
Exploring your gender performance
Creating coherence around your transformation (connecting the dots)
Transforming narratives so that they align with your adult Self of today
Exploring your feelings around becoming sexual with a woman
Exploring lesbian sex
Cultivating a community with women that you feel connected to, creating new friendships, and deep support
Exporing pleasure and your ability to give and receive
Exploring your attractions
Opening up to radical acceptance and radical honesty
Exploring relationship contracts (Open, Ethical Non-monogamy, Poly)
How to discuss new relationship contracts with your spouse
Boundary setting
Clear and direct communication
What program participants are saying…
In just 12 weeks you will…
Stop gaslighting yourself
Check your people pleaser at the door
Lessen your feelings of guilt, shame, and anxiety
Disown those shitty stories you have believed about yourself that do not bring you closer to your higher SELF
Understand what is keeping you from receiving pleasure and be ready to RECEIVE
Unpack the conditioning that comes from the patriarchy
Have a community of strong, brave humans that have their hands on your back
Be ready to live your most deeply aligned life
Communicate your needs with clarity
Create healthy boundaries
Have a greater capacity for a spacious understanding of yourself and your attractions
Feel confident to approach difficult conversations with your loved ones
…And SO much more. You have this ONE life! What are you waiting for?
Details
This 12-week program is for women ready to lean into curiosity about their sexuality, coming out later in life, and looking for others traveling on this path.
Meet with me in community for bi-weekly office hours via Zoom for spotlight coaching, questions, support and sharing in community.
Build your self-awareness and connect your dots through Self-reflection exercises including video lessons, meditations, and Self-reflection worksheets
Connect to other women in the program through the Unbox Your Sexuality™ private feed, building community, support, and belonging.
*The option to add 3 One-hour 1:1 Coaching sessions with Samantha to your program will be offered at checkout and can be added at any point in your program.
You are ready if you:
Are curious and want to understand your sexuality on a deeper level
Are or have been partnered or married to a man and feel attraction to women
Are single and either have no attraction (or aren’t sure if you have an attraction to men), and struggle connecting to your attraction to women, though you do know it's there
Have been looking for a safe, collaborative community to share your thoughts, feelings, and desires about the process you are in of questioning, understanding, accepting your sexuality, or coming out
Can be respectful toward the struggles of others and can listen and encourage as members share profound truths
Are ready to take part in a community and build friendships
Are ready to take guided risks and deep dives internally and want to find more acceptance and less self-judgment
Are looking for tips and tools to come out to yourself, family, and/or friends
Are ready to explore any self-critical or homophobic parts of yourself
Feel stuck about how you could remain in your relationship or marriage and explore relationships with women
Want to explore your gender expression, gender roles, and gender performance.
You are not ready if you:
Are looking for a therapeutic support group and want “therapy”
Want to find a group to convince you of anything at all about your sexuality
Are unable to listen to other’s stories or concerns without judgment
Are engaging in self-harming behaviors or have suicidal ideation
Have fixed ideas of how things should be and are not open to curiosity
Believe there is only one right way to go through this life transition and process of discovery
Unbox Your Sexuality™: A 12-Week Sexuality Liberation Program will help you find new ways to interact with yourself and others, cultivate community, and embrace a curious stance. Through this exploration, you will see the choices you didn’t even know were there and feel more self-acceptance and freedom to live out the life that has felt like a distant dream.
Are you ready to find your path and connect to others traveling on theirs so your journey feels like one of belonging, not isolation?
Unbox Your Sexuality™: A 12-Week Sexuality Liberation Program
Here’s what you get:
Twelve Weeks of Access to the Unbox Your Sexuality™ Program’s 3-Phase Method of Unboxing: Unpack, Unlearn, and Unleash ($1,997.00)
Bi-weekly Office Hours for 12-Weeks ($ 3147.00)
12-Week Access to a Private Community Feed on the Unbox Your Sexuality™ Network moderated by Samantha ($4197.00)
Total Value: $9,341
Today’s Price: $997
($83/week)
(Payment plans and Klarna are available once you click the link below)
Join the Unbox Your Sexuality™ program
Join the Unbox Your Sexuality™ Program and Add 3 One Hour Coaching Calls to Your Program
How It Works:
You’ll register for Unbox Your Sexuality™: A 12-Week Sexuality Liberation Program
You will join coaching office hours with Samantha via Zoom bi-weekly for twelve weeks for coaching, support and to join others on this journey
A replay of the office hours will be available on the private Unbox Your Sexuality™ feed for one week after the live call (in case you can’t attend a live office hours session)
You’ll have access to others going through the Unbox Your Sexuality™ Program on the private Unbox Your Sexuality™ feed on the network and will chat, share, connect, and find support and encouragement from Samantha and others for 12 weeks